You now know how you’re supposed to act if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back.....Now it’s time to actually put these powerful strategies into your heart.
How to get your Ex back when he has moved on to a new girlfriend.
-The first step is to understand why he dumped you, What was he saying to you before the breakup? Were there any signs? Did he say why he didn’t like or love you anymore?
You can’t make him break up with his new girlfriend. It has to be his decision. You have to give him just enough time to miss you, but not enough to completely forget about you...
Start no contact for a while and then contact him again.
-Go out during weekends and have plans after work or after school, that way, you can avoid doing things for your ex.
-When you work out, you no longer look hurt and vulnerable. You become this confident, strong person, physically and emotionally. Don’t do this for your ex, but for yourself.
Ask yourself how important it is to you. If you make the decision to leave it in the past, do your best to do that, rather than bringing it up again in future conflicts. Conflict can be distressing. If you see it as an opportunity for growth, it can help you become closer and deepen your relationship. If he is good to you most of the time then stay with him, if not then break up with him but don't get so attached that you stay with someone who treats you bad. Try not to get into an argument or a fight with him for what he has done whether he admits it or not.Some of the main reasons why men are unhappy in a relationship. Try to stay calm and composed as much as possible in the presence of your man. Never ever blow the situation up and get into a harsh words or screams when you see him alone.
Sensitive Questions Followed by Truthful Answers ?
- Are you in love or just a friend
- Do you really want him back?
- Why do you want to get back together with him?
- Look at all your past relationships.
- Can you truly forgive?
- Would it be possible that you could be back together again?
- Consider the possibility that you may be wrong.
- Has anything relevant changed since then?
- Has he got another woman?
If you have any problem with your ex boyfriend that you can't resolve. You can take action.
- Understanding that conflict will inevitably occur in a close relationship. The only way of getting around it is to not share your opinion at all, which is not healthy.
- Stop talking to him totally: Block all forms of communication with him via phone, computer, or in person. End it. Run away from him if you see him anywhere fast.
- Go out of your way to talk to him
- Don't expect him to come running back to you, Show your ex you are handling the breakup maturely and respectfully, there are a lot of things that can make you happy instead of your being with your boyfriend.
- Don't scream or cry but make him feel wanted
- If he calls you back, you have to ignore him
- Change your entire style of clothing
- Stop talking to a friend he didn't like
- Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened
- When you get hurt just forgive and forget
Show your ex all the respect even though you feel that he does not deserve any in that situation. But remember the hard truth that knowing along counts to nothing if you don’t act on it.
Be cool. be nice. keep in mind he might have already made up his mind. If it's you, good! If not, be ready and don't be a jealous about it and let him go. If you were good to him he will find you in the near future. If he decides to go with this new guy he met, show him your a classy woman and say peace. Tell him good luck and that you will always be a friend to him. If you find yourself becoming obsessed with getting your ex back, relax and trust that things will work out for your greater good. If he doesn’t come back, understand that there may be someone else who is better for you. Let God, the higher power, the Universe or whatever you believe in bring you the man you’re supposed to be with.
University of Westminster - Guide 2015