Ask yourself honest questions followed by truthful answers before you take any step towards getting back with your Ex.
- Do you really want him back?
- Why do you want to get back together with him?
- Has anything relevant changed since then?
- Look at all your past relationships.
- Can you truly forgive?
- Would it be possible that you could be back together again?
- Consider the possibility that you may be wrong
The key is to keep trying is a noble way, try to show the difference you have made in yourself even when you are trying to get in touch with him and get into a dialogue. We are all humans and are bound by love and sooner than later he would start seeing and realizing the change in you.
At time we may get into this thought process, as time goes by things would heal by itself. This way of thinking may not hold good here, as they may start looking for a new partner or try to settle down with someone else.
Don’t keep bringing up the past issues and troubles. Let it go off your thoughts.By letting go of the past it allows those burdens and hurt to not come up in every situation or every time that you get frustrated. That is not to say that you are forgetting, but forgiving and moving on is healthy. It does no good to nag him over the past, it will not change what has already occurred, but it will drive him away.
No arguments please:
Try not to get into an argument or a fight with him for what he has done whether he admits it or not.Some of the main reasons why men are unhappy in a relationship.
Try to stay calm and composed as much as possible in the presence of your man. Never ever blow the situation up and get into a harsh words or screams when you see him alone.
Show your ex all the respect even though you feel that he does not deserve any in that situation. But remember the hard truth that knowing along counts to nothing if you don’t act on it.
Easily Trigger If You Understand the Different Steps
-If you want to get him back. Let him be! ... Don't manage the relationship
-Stop talking to him totally: Block all forms of communication with him via phone, computer, or in person. End it. Run away from him if you see him anywhere fast.
-Go out of your way to talk to him
-Don't expect him to come running back to you
-Don't scream or cry but make him feel wanted
-If he calls you back, you have to ignore him
-Change your entire style of clothing
-Stop talking to a friend he didn't like
-Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened
Be cool. be nice. keep in mind he might have allready made up his mind. If it's you, good! If not, be ready and dont be a jelous **** about it and let him go. If you were good to him he will find you in the near future. If he decides to go with this new guy he met, show him your a classy woman and say peace. Tell him good luck and that you will allways be a friend to him. After a few weeks when you feel better, go out and get to know lots of men (lots) make them good friends and get to really understand them. You will have fun and enjoy life as a free guy.
Peace and blessing.
Useful Information for Life
You become a giver, and you believe that, in time, he will reciprocate. While it's true that every relationship is give and take, the truth is that men don't fall in love because you've given them so much.
***BEFORE YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND, YOU MUST HAVE A SAFETY PLAN. YOU ARE IN THE MOST PHYSICAL DANGER RIGHT AFTER BREAKING UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND.